tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post7227824859856443356..comments2024-01-06T15:58:20.726-07:00Comments on Never Ending Journey: E.N.O.U.G.HLyniluhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04742585512852240355noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-6020447486396234672008-02-17T11:02:00.000-07:002008-02-17T11:02:00.000-07:00Alright, everyone. Again, just a note to say I'm n...Alright, everyone. Again, just a note to say I'm not replying to every comment here because of time, actually. Be sure to skip ahead and read a second chapter of this posted on 2/17/08. There is hope.Lyniluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04742585512852240355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-84274727227652643942008-02-17T10:01:00.000-07:002008-02-17T10:01:00.000-07:00I don't always get to read my favorite blogs in pe...I don't always get to read my favorite blogs in peace. My kids are reading over my shoulder, or asking for a sandwich, or... know know how kids are... anyway, I read this post over the weekend, and I wanted SO BADLY to respond immediately but these guys just weren't gonna let it happen... Long story short, BEAUTIFUL POST. I'm so proud of you, Lyn. You said what I've wanted to say for so long, but you did it with kindness and eloquence. So BRAVO. <BR/><BR/>P.S. I haven't posted about it yet, but your name was pulled out of the hat for the Pay It Forward thingy. I'll let you know when your "prize" is getting sent. Wait a minute! I guess I need your mailing address first.Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00234102836517506471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-37204203254030055952008-02-16T22:52:00.000-07:002008-02-16T22:52:00.000-07:00AMENI hate getting emails like that. I might "bor...AMEN<BR/><BR/>I hate getting emails like that. I might "borrow" your response.Pepperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11072562789743568793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-43826660039600193252008-02-16T17:08:00.000-07:002008-02-16T17:08:00.000-07:00I, personally, am glad I don't 'get it' because I ...I, personally, am glad I don't 'get it' because I don't want to be able to relate to people like this on any level.kathihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13998865477080265039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-6140655553636640202008-02-16T09:50:00.000-07:002008-02-16T09:50:00.000-07:00I can't believe that people you KNOW are actually ...I can't believe that people you KNOW are actually sending you this crap.Black Wombmyn Chathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15851958619453943966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-39561517682809508422008-02-15T22:58:00.000-07:002008-02-15T22:58:00.000-07:00oh, i started a family feud of sorts right before ...oh, i started a family feud of sorts right before christmas when i asked people not to send me crap like this. some on my biological dad's side are ignorant, and just assumed that i was ignorant like they were. <BR/>my e-mail said a couple of things to the effect that i was an educated thinker and had no intention of joining the republican mentality. and then there was also something about being left of liberal. this all came after i replied, quite thoughtfully, to a couple of the racist crap e-mails they sent prior. i copied and responded to the stupidity of the content, but it obviously was too advanced for their simple sheep-like thinking.<BR/>after the big brew-ha-ha, the e-mails stopped. and christmas was a little tense.<BR/>the e-mail you posted was pittiful. and the person who sent it to you obviously isn't on your level. i would seriously think about whether you need to have this person in your life. if you can get by without them, if they offer you nothing positive, then send them out to pasteur (pun intended - they're sheeple). the truth is, people who send things out like this are very stupid because they no not of what they speak. they are only propogating a stereotype they have heard third-person. stupid is as stupid does. and desperate people do desperate things. people who live their lives in fear, or who believe they are entitled more than the guy next to them are scary folk. and all too often, they hide behind religion to do it. hypocrites. send that stuff my way, and let me have some fun with it.cameohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03304458900232594474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-60313288191827939192008-02-15T22:43:00.000-07:002008-02-15T22:43:00.000-07:00Everyone, there is a lot in your comments to respo...<B>Everyone</B>, there is a lot in your comments to respond to, but more than I can handle, so please forgive me while I simply thank you all for what you say here. <BR/><BR/>This is indeed, a problem for me. I'm guessing that I haven't made it clear enough to some people that I have made certain decisions, politically, ethically and spiritually. But, you see, I don't believe I should have to make those declarations!! Accept me as I am!! If you like me before you know my politics or other personal beliefs, does that stuff matter???? I'm not trying to change anyone; please don't push your views on me. (That "your" is not any of you here)<BR/><BR/>I suppose we all expect our friends and family members to have similar views to our own. But when I learn that someone differs, I don't send to them/say to them things that I know might be controversial!! Perhaps I need to be more clear with others about where I stand. ???<BR/><BR/>S3, I know I could potentially cause rifts with some people who are very dear to me, however, if they continue to insult my beliefs or other people I love, is it a relationship I want to continue? Tough decision to make. <BR/><BR/>I can enjoy the humor if it is actually funny and not personal and venomous. Of late, there has been little of that. Most of the "humor" has been just simply vicious.<BR/><BR/>As far as the innocents caught in the crossfire ... I see two comments here apologizing "just in case." No, Dawn and Daisy, neither of you have ever offended me in the least.<BR/><BR/>As far as the filters, email providers and such ... I know there are things I can do. However, a lot of the forwarded emails are OK. And I guess the point that I want to make here is that email is being used in ways that other communication simply is not. Why do some people seem to think that email in an open invitation to anything they send? Reminder ... I just can't see the person who sent this actually printing it out, putting it in envelopes and stamping it, then sending it to everyone he/she knows!! <BR/><BR/>OK, my rant is over. I went away all day on business, now I've ranted just a little more and I'm done. Tomorrow I promise a happier post. Not sure what it will be, but It will be of a better nature!!<BR/><BR/>Again, thank you all, and my love to you.Lyniluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04742585512852240355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-14999861067065337152008-02-15T20:39:00.000-07:002008-02-15T20:39:00.000-07:00Yay for you honey!!!Yay for you honey!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-67980003780680307292008-02-15T16:59:00.000-07:002008-02-15T16:59:00.000-07:00You have every right to be outraged by that kind o...You have every right to be outraged by that kind of crap!<BR/><BR/>I think you must get in the USA more than here, people seem more politically emotive [if that's the right word]. Here there are people who are passionate about politics, but most people will only concern issues which affect them directly. <BR/><BR/>E-mail is a definitely an area of the internet that ought to have better control. Spam and such are a big issue, if that was your problem I would suggest you change providers [gmail has the best free spam filtering service]. But since it is mail coming from your friends, it is much harder to deal with and you're on the right track with this email. <BR/><BR/>I could write lots on this, I used to use email quite extensively, but have now restricted it to correspondence with a few friends and various notifications and school mail. I think once you let people know the mail is not welcome, you can start deleting it without opening and moving on.<BR/><BR/>Most people I communicate with have moved to different forms of contact, such as social networking sites, IM and mobile phone. I agree that people will be prepared to send crap they won't pay 40c for. <BR/><BR/>There are various suggested methods for moderating email, and a cover charge definitely is one. At least those junk mail you get in the mailbox has to pay it, so should anyone else. <BR/>That way, if people send you crap you're not willing to read, at least they are not getting that money back.<BR/><BR/>[I could continue, but oops there's a post in itself already]Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-84954312458449265642008-02-15T16:52:00.000-07:002008-02-15T16:52:00.000-07:00Oh, one more thing. I for one, HATE when I say or...Oh, one more thing. I for one, HATE when I say or spell something incorrectly. So please excuse all of the typos I made in my previous comment :-). <BR/><BR/>Secondly, if I've EVER sent you anything that was off color or offensive, PLEASE forgive me. I normally just delete stuff like that. But I've been known to make a mistake every now and again. So again, I apologize.<BR/><BR/>Love ya, again!!!Dawn Bibbshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07830436491702607448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-46885245818491122132008-02-15T16:44:00.000-07:002008-02-15T16:44:00.000-07:00Ok, my lady...all I have to say is...I couldn't ha...Ok, my lady...all I have to say is...I couldn't have said it better. I TOTALLY appreciate and respect your stance on this. So in other words, I totally agree. I wish I had the wherewithall to have come up with the eloquent way you worded your request. Again, VERY well said.<BR/><BR/>Being a black woman, I tend to receive such emails myself. Simply because "familiar" people think that I may get a kick out of it. Well that's MILES from the truth. Emails like the one you received, rather it be from a person or color or not (which we ALL are, by the way), are extremely offensive. <BR/><BR/>What's so sad is, is't 2008 and people are still acting so ignorant with regards to the "live and let live" line of thinking. Like you, I may not agree with what someone does, how they live and the like. But who am I to judge. As long as you're not attempting to force me to think/live the way you do...we have no problems and no issues.<BR/><BR/>I thank you, Lynilu, for setting the record straight, so to speak. <BR/><BR/>Well done!<BR/><BR/>Now...go forth and have a GROOVY weekend, my friend :-D. Love ya!Dawn Bibbshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07830436491702607448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-73145887591930394212008-02-15T16:35:00.000-07:002008-02-15T16:35:00.000-07:00ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!! I have a friend who sends me ...ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!! I have a friend who sends me all kinds of crap. He is a conservative Republican and a Bible thumper. The political stuff he sends to me is very insulting to me. I don't think he even knows how insulting it is. I delete that crap. I believe he even sent me the same Email you posted. He also sends all kinds of religious stuff. What I can't stand is intolerance and people who wouldn't even entertain the thought of looking at things any other way but their way. If self proclaimed religious people were SO religious, wouldn't you think they would be the most tolerant?? It seems to me most people who feel they are religious, are the most hypocritical and intolerant.<BR/><BR/>If I have ever sent you anything that you felt was unacceptable, I apologize.Daisyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05401667744228083776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-6704732229578999012008-02-15T14:45:00.000-07:002008-02-15T14:45:00.000-07:00WOW-what a fantastic email-though I am sorry it st...WOW-what a fantastic email-though I am sorry it started your day off as it did.<BR/><BR/>I get emails from my MOTHER that annoy the crap out of me. I try and explain that I do not feel the same way they do about the things they send me-but they keep doing it.<BR/><BR/>Email is great, but it has also opened us up to a whole new world of challenges and situations. I like your response email and think you should send it to the editor of a local paper or something so others get the hint!!<BR/><BR/>Hope you are in better spirits-not that you have to be, but you know. Also, thanks for your email--I truly appreciated it and will respond this weekend.beanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11859055654446653954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-22913809205093520682008-02-15T13:02:00.000-07:002008-02-15T13:02:00.000-07:00Great post, Lynilu. I find the email you received...Great post, Lynilu. I find the email you received incredibly offensive and I consider myself conservative (mostly). But I don't tolerate intolerance, either.<BR/><BR/>I love your email and may just have to borrow it for myself!Jensterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15639970448069931471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-1780841315806343512008-02-15T12:48:00.000-07:002008-02-15T12:48:00.000-07:00That is NOT funny...I agree...thanks for posting a...That is NOT funny...I agree...thanks for posting about this...I am so sick of the anti-Obama spam email that is full of lies...I posted about that a while back...<BR/><BR/>ugh...<BR/><BR/>I have a new feature I am starting over at the nest, please come check it out!<BR/><BR/>Bradley<BR/>The Egel NestThe Egel Nesthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11475452898579351376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-6080654287847495782008-02-15T12:14:00.000-07:002008-02-15T12:14:00.000-07:00Amen Sister!!!!!! I feel EXACTLY the same way and,...Amen Sister!!!!!! I feel EXACTLY the same way and, in fact, was just ranting to Gary yesterday about it. This is one of my BIGGEST pet peeves.<BR/>I think that I have finally "broken" some people of this, because I'm getting fewer of them.You'd think they'd know me enough to know that sort of stuff offends me! <BR/>But I still get these ridiculous emails about politicians that are so obviously filled with rumor and lies...you wonder why someone wouldn't stop for a few moments and at least do some background on it before they send it.<BR/>I think your letter back to them is perfect. I hope it goes well.Cheryl Wrayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01437963733817953990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-37048769690257174242008-02-15T11:30:00.000-07:002008-02-15T11:30:00.000-07:00I forgot to say in my last post that I do enjoy hu...I forgot to say in my last post that I do enjoy humor that is politically charged, as long as it is truly funny. I get the same laughs out of emails directed at conservatives as I do liberals. However, I detest any bigoted emails.<BR/>I believe that one of our best gifts is to be able to laugh at ourselves, and even to use humor to get a point across, or to difuse a situation. However, I cannot condone laughing at others because of something they can't help. <BR/>Actually, you said it best!<BR/>-s3-Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-40615011298473591722008-02-15T11:20:00.000-07:002008-02-15T11:20:00.000-07:00I agree that I don't like the emotion based politi...I agree that I don't like the emotion based political crud that some people thrive on forwarding. I did have to laugh, because most of the emotion based forwards I get are from my liberal friends, and as you know, I'm mostly conservative. I don't care for over-the-top stuff leaning either way.<BR/>Just so you know, when you send out your email to stop the crud (and I agree with you) some will take offense who shouldn't, because they aren't the guilty ones, and you will never hear from them again, and the guilty ones will miss the point. I did something similar to stop the crud, and sadly, haven't heard from some dearly loved relatives since. They weren't even the guilty ones.<BR/>I had one friend who couldn't take the hints, and the crud he was sending was so offensive that I finally had to block his emails completely.<BR/>I get tired of the forwards in general, but I decided that they show that the person is thinking of me (as long as the forwards aren't usually total junk)<BR/>By the way, most email programs will allow anyone to filter out and delete any message that has Fw: in the subject line.<BR/>Love ya Auntie! -s3-Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-15054886403395217632008-02-15T10:41:00.000-07:002008-02-15T10:41:00.000-07:00I agree with you Lynilu I get crap like that from ...I agree with you Lynilu I get crap like that from people (usually member of my family i'm ashamed to say) and i've asked them not to send it again so now I just delete with out reading when I glance and get the gist of what it is. Maybe i'll delete something "important" sometime but I seriously doubt it. It irks me too. A Lot.Monogram Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00201245389134780751noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28840534.post-19248622746145919212008-02-15T10:37:00.000-07:002008-02-15T10:37:00.000-07:00Do you KNOW the person who sent that? I've seen s...Do you KNOW the person who sent that? I've seen some political/religious-right stuff that's offended me but I have to say I think that one is the worst I've seen. I've only ever known one person who was that racist/right wing/hateful in my life, and he was a Baptist pastor of a church. He found racist jokes HILARIOUS and had an endless supply of them. I was very young when I knew him so I formed a number of opinions at that time regarding religion vs. ethical behavior. In my opinion, the more you have of one, the less you'll be able to have of the other. I've personally never met a single person who was an exception to this.<BR/><BR/>Definitely send that email out, enough is indeed enough!!Minnesota Nicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00114323395915699960noreply@blogger.com