When someone you love dies, the dream you had with them dies, too. They are no longer there to help you fulfill the dream. You have to create a new dream, one without them.
I think of couples who have been together for 40, 50, 60 years. How hard that rebuilding of your life’s dream must be. No wonder grief is so tough to get through.
Think of yourself. What is your dream, the dream you have with your partner?
Has someone with whom you had a dream died? How did that change your life? How did your dream change?