The older I get the more I don't care if I fit in with everyone else.
Yeah, I'm kinda thinking I mighta said that and someone quoted me. LOL! No, I don't really take credit for that quote, but it could be straight outta my mouth. However, it seems to fit me pretty well.
I'm actually not antisocial. I love to hang out with people, and I like it when people like me. The difference, as I've aged, is that I no longer need for people to like me. I don't feel a need to fit in. Most of all, I don't adjust me to fit someone else's idea of who I am. Or who they want me to be.
I used to do that to some degree, and I'm guessing that it would depend on who is asked as to how much I have flexed in the past. I know some people think I've gone overboard, but others know the difference between "overboard" and "survival." I think I've survived. Now I'm living.